Monday, April 25, 2011

Life isn’t about finding yourself, Life is about creating yourself


This morning at 5:15 AM the alarm went off... funny thing is I woke up at 5 AM on my own....and it wasn't even because I had to go pee! Today was my second "morning" workout. I have decided that as hard as it is to wake up that early it beats working out after school or work! I really enjoy Susan's classes...she kicks my butt and makes my whole body hurt! What is even better, is that Nic and I go together! I find it a lot of fun to work out with my husband. We went on a 4 mile run together on Saturday morning (oh by the way can I have Saturday's weather back...67 and sunny... yes please!). If I had been by myself I would have only gone 2 miles but he pushes me to go farther, do better, prove to myself that I can! He does this all day every day with anything I am going after. He's simply amazing!

Last night, we got back to Bham around 7:40pm. I unpacked and went into instant clean mode. We have been so busy the past few weeks that I haven't caught up completely on the household chores. The dust was driving me nuts on our dresser and I like to see vacuum lines in the carpet the kitchen counters needed a good wipe down laundry bins were getting full......and on and on that's the list that was in my head. My husband thinks I'm nuts to attack these things on a Sunday night at 8pm. But, I just don't have time! With school, work, workouts, being social, holidays, hair shows, etc when can you do laundry and put it away let alone dust the place and mop floors and buy groceries! He has a very hard time just sitting and watching me run all over that he willingly jumps into my crazy cleaning frenzy. I told him he doesn't have to but he insists that he wants to put in his part. However, if there are dishes in the sink in the morning Nic washes them all. He makes the coffee and brings me a cup while I'm getting ready upstairs....EVERY MORNING! He goes to work Mon-Fri, a few weekends, and travels for field work to support us. He never complains! He folds laundry and puts it away. He likes to make breakfast on the weekends for us. What I'm saying is, that he does do his part! He helps me out all the time! If I forgot to get something at the grocery store he will always stop and get it for me! I want him to know that I recognize all his hard work and if I decide to go cleaning crazy on Sunday at 8PM or Saturday morning at 7AM you do not have to join in with me!


until next time....

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

A little behind....

Every day I think.... "Hey I should blog about this!" And then I get home and somehow never make it to blogging. Maybe it's because of work, school, laundry, cleaning, being a wife, homework, bible study, working out, staying sane did I mention that one yet? I love my life it is truly fantastic but unusually busy!

I have always liked to be on the go. I don't like down time...lately that is all I have wanted! I want to do my arts and crafts! I have some fun canvas ideas floating around in my head that I just need a day to execute! Why is it so hard to find ONE free day? I also cannot believe it is April! When did that happen? Yes, it happened 5 days ago but I think I missed February and March!

This coming weekend CJ turns ONE! I was thinking about getting him some trucks or cars! I'll make sure he knows the noises that go with them! Any better ideas for a 1 year old boy? Sunday is the annual Tulip festival with my favorite ladies...Sara and Mal! The boys will most likely be fishing if the weather would stop being so CRUDDY! (I know of a timeshare that can take us to Mexico who's in?) The following weekend is the Annual Hair Show in Seattle Bellevue this year! Last year, I lost my keys in the convention center let's not make this year so memorable and save Mom a few trips back and forth from Seattle to Bham! OOPS! Unfortunately, Cash's 2nd Bday is also Sunday and I am bummed to have already made hair show plans! Nic and Keaton (Dee's bf) will be off finding Tom the turkey...yes it's that time of year already! Oh joy! Please just bring home the meat and leave his feathers behind.... thank you, your loving wife! Following weekend is EASTER! Oh, I love me some cadbury eggs! Who doesn't?

Easter always reminds me of my Great Aunt Barbara who has passed away. She would always send my brother and I each a solid chocolate bunny from Harry and David's! I think my dad ate more of the bunnies than we did but I miss her and those bunnies but her a lot more!

Needless to say April is jam packed of fun social events! I am excited to take lots of pictures to post on here for all of you to enjoy! I promise to blog more and facebook less... honestly, I haven't had time to facebook either!

Time for dinner...if I didn't have a cold I would be very excited...however I can't taste much at the moment! So, I will live through Nic tonight and see how much he enjoys the yummy manicotti. Did some batch cooking yesterday 18 meals in 5 hours and 15 min! More on that to come!


p.s. sorry for my jumbled random thoughts this evening! 

until next time...

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Project Homeless

“I was taught that the world had a lot of problems; that I could struggle and change them; that intellectual and material gifts brought the privilege and responsibility of sharing with others less fortunate; and that service is the rent each of us pays for living, the very purpose of life and
not something you do in your spare time or after you have reached your personal goals.”
Marian Wright Edelman

Project Homeless- 
The mission of Project Homeless ConnectTM (PHC) is to connect Bellingham's homeless with the system of care that will help them move off the streets and into housing. The goal is to have all the homeless off the streets in the next 5 years. Everyone has a story...


My heart was warmed and a bright smile was deposited on my face to see all the volunteers at Project Homeless. I feel privileged to have been able to participate and volunteer in a program that possesses a sizeable impact for the homeless in our own backyard, Whatcom County.

I was excited and geared up to help wherever I was needed throughout the day. Originally, I was supposed to be working the referral station. This was composed of handing out vouchers, free bus tickets, and informing guests where they could find further medical and dental help that wasn’t available on site. For example, we had a few people ask us where they could get their dentures realigned. We then explained the process of how they could go to Interfaith or Seymour and make an appointment or arrive at 7:30 AM in hopes that at some point throughout the day they had a cancelled appointment. I can only imagine how frustrating this information would be for someone. I felt sympathetic for these people who were seeking help but couldn’t receive services for at least a few weeks out or by sitting around all day in hopes that another person didn’t show up or cancelled their appointment. 

After being at referral for a short period, I jumped into triage. This station involved exams and taking radiographs. I enjoyed this position because I was able to connect with our guests. I guided each guest from the waiting area to our make shift operatory and reviewed medical and dental history before their exams began. I could visibly see one individual was nervous. I asked him the basics of how his day was going, if he had plans for the rest of the day, and if he had any questions. He didn’t have any questions but did tell me he was extremely scared of pain and needles. I told him he could take a few deep breaths because neither of those things were going to happen here at our station. I immediately saw relief in his eyes and he began to tell me all about his life. He did need two teeth extracted and when I found him later on that day he told me it was not as bad as he anticipated it to be.

After lunch, I found myself in one of the dental vans. I was in awe of this mobile home turned dental office! Once I was in the van, I didn’t feel I was helping the homeless as much as I was learning about dental procedures. Since we were working with a laid back dentist, I was able to assist chair side on a guest who needed root tips extracted. I was eager and apprehensive at the same time. I was worried I wouldn’t do something right and hurt the guest! It turned out to be just fine except for forgetting to put on proper PPE (mask and eye wear I quickly put it on about 5 min into the appointment! I was too excited!)…oops! It was amazing to see how a few tools can loosen and pull out roots of a tooth! The Dr. put in some stitches and gave the patient some ibuprofen and antibiotics. We could see an infection in his gums where an abscess was clearly formed and causing pain to the patient. The patient told me he wished kids knew what drugs do to your mouth. The Dr. said they do and think that it won't happen to them. Why do we always think we are the exception? 

It wasn't just dental that was being offered. There was medical both physical and mental. Volunteers from social security, DOL, and opportunity council were there. Ciao Thyme (who did the food for my rehearsal dinner... they can make dirt taste good) provided lunch for all the homeless and volunteers! The Bellingham Beauty School students volunteered their time giving haircuts! There were over 300 volunteers trying to reach out to the over 1,100 homeless in Whatcom County.

I saw a few of the guests that I helped as we were wrapping things up. The guy who had the teeth pulled turned out to be the husband of one of the women who we provided services to in the van. They were walking up the hill as Amanda and I were walking down. They had big smiles spread across their faces and bounce in their step. We said hi and asked how the rest of their day was going. The woman said, "Don't we look good? Look at my husband and his new haircut! Doesn't he look handsome?" I flashed a smile and said, "Yes he does!!!!!" and she said, "I better watch out now especially for you...he's mine!" Of course she was joking around with us, but it was something special to see them feel like kings and queens for a day!
           
As I think back on the experience, I’m humbled by how thankful all the guests were. Each and every one of them thanked us for everything we were doing. They expressed gratitude and had a sense of humor. I was happy to be able to help relieve their physical pain permanently and the mental pain for at least one day. It was never about an opportunity to learn more about dental. However, it was about connecting with those in my community that could use a helping hand. I wanted to lend a hand to all who needed a crutch and an ear to those who needed to talk. And if along the way I helped with their dental needs, it was an added bonus!

WIRELESS X-RAY! How cool is that thing! The clear plastic protects you up to 6 feet from the radiation!


End of the day shot in the van with Dr. Taylor, Amanda, Ellen, Linda, and Me!
Ellen's job is to drive the mobile home to different volunteer events! She is a dental assistant and gets to travel and help people in need as a job!  Linda (behind me) is my instructor at school and Amanda (left) is one of my peers. We both were able to assist with Dr. Taylor and he's a funny guy!

until next time...

Monday, March 7, 2011

Homework....

I took a class in college called professional communication. We had to write mission statements...both personal and professional. One of the questions on my hw this week was on my goals and philosophy for life and work. So here's what I have..... I hope this makes you think about your own lives and what you want out of them!

“My personal mission statement”


I want to strive to live life to the fullest extent. I will project my optimistic outlook by always finding the benefits and advantages to everything. I want to maintain my timely manner and efficiency by finishing everything I do. My outgoing personality will motivate others to do their best. My positive attitude will shine and deposit smiles on loved ones, strangers, and co-workers faces. I will lend a hand to all who need a crutch and an ear to those who need to talk. I want to take chances and give my all at everything I attempt. Most of all be satisfied with everything I have made for myself and never forget to learn from my failures. Life is about challenges, laughter, victory, and relationships. Life is what you make of it and I want to make mine the most amazing experience it can be. 

“My professional mission statement”


My career mission is to become a top dental assistant for a well known dental office. My aim is to provide positive, practical, and professional support to the doctor and patients in aiding them to achieve an ideal oral cavity. I will do so by working closely with the doctor, dental team, and patients. To be trusted as honest and caring to gain confidence with my patients and team members. I will give 100% effort to my job, but once I leave the office I will resume my personal life and return back to work the next morning. A balanced life is a healthy life. I am prepared to step up in emergency situations when problems arise. Every challenge provides a new opportunity to prove myself.


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Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Turmoil

I've had a journal since I was 16 years old. I went in spurts as to how often I would write in it. I've had four different journals. I always changed them when something major happened. I started my first journal after our house burnt down. It let me get my fears out without having to talk to anyone about it. I didn't sleep well for a while and would wake up in the middle of the night and write it all down so I could get back to sleep. I guess that is to be expected though when you live in a hotel room for 3 weeks. Two more journals on boyfriends and the last one was about me. Finding out who I was, growing, my life's journey as I saw it. I wrote about my happiness and sorrows, adventures and failures, the good and bad things I realized about who I was and how to improve, and much more. My only concern about my journal was that someone aka my brother would find it and know all my secrets and tease me about them.

Now I write this blog. I started it because I wanted to be an open book and how I want my life to be told. I am realizing tonight that maybe jotting my life on pieces of paper and hiding it away would be easier! Of course hiding is easier than putting it all out there. I am open and honest and raw. I now realize that some of what I write isn't as open as others want me to be. So, do I make this blog private to only those I wish to share it with? Does that make the point of my blog, being an open book, irrelevant then? Do I only talk about me, myself, and I and not mention others names? Do I make it just my own thoughts and walk and nothing about those that I include in my life? How do I write about MY life and daily adventures with others and not include them in my posts? How do I keep the lives of others private from those of you reading about me? Is that possible on a blog? HELP!

until next time...

She said it was okay....

Just a hint more of Vegas


...Nancy you are a bad influence...but we sure do like you!

until next time...

Monday, February 28, 2011

Preview...


Just getting you ready for the rest of what happened in Vegas....

Until next time...